Repositories: Quote table and columns and use NPoco extensions over raw SQL (#20034)

* fix sql syntax issues

* unify all dtos, fix autoIncrement for NPoco.Insert and .BulkInsert

* fix Copilot review comments

* fix sql syntax in TrackedReferencesRepository.GetPagedDescendantsInReferences()

* remove changes in TemplateServiceTests

* Tweaks and fixes from first review.

* Reverted changes outside scope of PR.

* Use FirstOrDefault over SelectTop.

* Fix delete member issue.

* Fixed issue with create of webhooks.

* Reverted changes to default data install.

* Removed unused method.

* Rationalised use of quoting helpers.

* Apply suggestions from code review

Co-authored-by: Copilot <175728472+Copilot@users.noreply.github.com>

* Fix nullability issue.

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Co-authored-by: Andy Butland <abutland73@gmail.com>
Co-authored-by: Copilot <175728472+Copilot@users.noreply.github.com>

src/Umbraco.Web.UI/appsettings.Development.template.json

@@ -32,7 +32,7 @@
         "Smtp": {
           //"From": "your@email.here",
           //"Host": "localhost",
-          // "Port": "25"
+          //"Port": 25
         }
       },
       "Hosting": {